Vigiling Advice for Loved Ones
Communications
Presume they can hear you even if they are not conscious
Tell them who you are and who else is in the room
Let them know before you touch or reposition them
When you are leaving, let them know if & when you might return
Let them know if others are planning to visit
When You're Not Sure What to Say, Try:
Thank You for...
I'm Sorry for...
Please Forgive Me for...
I Forgive You for...
I Love You ❤️
To Enhance the Atmosphere
Serene Music or Sound Healing
Play Audio Messages from Loved Ones
Soft Lighting or Electric Candles
Comforting Smells (lavender oil or favorite foods)
Gentle touch such as a hand on the shoulder, or holding hands
Can place special objects in their hand such as a rosary
Consider their View & Rearrange special visual momentos
Allow Children & Pets to be in the room and snuggle if possible
When you are ready to help them Let Go You can Say
Thank you for all that you have done in this life
There's nothing more you need to do
We will all be fine and will Take Care of Each Other
We will Honor Your Life
We Love You
We Wish you Complete Peace as You Transition